Got this very interesting topic to discuss about. I am sure Elaine will agree with me because we have chatted about this topic before.
One of my guy friend (U noe who U r ) asked me: "how come almost all the gals I know....wants to be mi best friends...but wouldnt want me to be with her?" Maybe the question bows down to: 1. How do you treat her? 2. Sincerity 3. Guys need to be initiative, Girls need to react or maybe when times has change - Girls need to show the effort and guys need to react. But to show the effort, there must be some slight chance of hint, Hint of Hope 4. Feelings 5. Chemistry
If someone is waiting for the person to take the initiative, when will the day ever come to make known the feelings hiding inside? Maybe not now, Maybe never.......
I would think, How much do you desire that someone? How much do you wanna be with that someone? If the mind and heart coordinate but actions do not, it's also equivalent to worthless, no beginning and of course no end... Humans.. will thus seek for another, Cycle repeats
For people who had opposite sexes as best friends and wonder where's the one for them, one advice: Grab your happiness then. Not all but One only
I don't wanna make U feel stupid but I must indicate a point: There is a fine line between Liking someone as Lover and as Friends.
When U set your heart at someone: Romance, Tian yan Mi Yu, Tons of SMses, Midnight phonecalls, Dating, Missing, steal glances, Grabbing every chance
When you feel as friends and gers don't feel it because: Happy-going-out, Laughter & Fun, Talking about everything and anything, Go home and everythign back to normal, Once in a while chatting and a few smses
Some juz mention a few praises, passing some hints and no effort. -End of story-
Sorry guys.. It's a rat race society, be it work, studies and no exception for love.
Fighting for it and not letting loose is the way. Question: How sincere are you is the bottomline. the rest upto the ger: How do u feel?
PS: I am not an expert, not referring to anyone in particular but just my 2 cents worth.
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