</head> <body><script type="text/javascript"> function setAttributeOnload(object, attribute, val) { if(window.addEventListener) { window.addEventListener('load', function(){ object[attribute] = val; }, false); } else { window.attachEvent('onload', function(){ object[attribute] = val; }); } } </script> <div id="navbar-iframe-container"></div> <script type="text/javascript" src="https://apis.google.com/js/platform.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript"> gapi.load("gapi.iframes:gapi.iframes.style.bubble", function() { if (gapi.iframes && gapi.iframes.getContext) { gapi.iframes.getContext().openChild({ url: 'https://www.blogger.com/navbar.g?targetBlogID\x3d7269941\x26blogName\x3dA+lit\x27+treat+from+me\x26publishMode\x3dPUBLISH_MODE_BLOGSPOT\x26navbarType\x3dBLACK\x26layoutType\x3dCLASSIC\x26searchRoot\x3dhttps://embracenbreathe.blogspot.com/search\x26blogLocale\x3den\x26v\x3d2\x26homepageUrl\x3dhttps://embracenbreathe.blogspot.com/\x26vt\x3d-388240672236325470', where: document.getElementById("navbar-iframe-container"), id: "navbar-iframe" }); } }); </script>
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

Personality test

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

I did one and I am a sucker for this kind. This test is quite in-depth, ask many questions and with visual tests even.

I think it's pretty true for me.

You are an EXPLORER / builder

You have a great deal of vitality. You are curious, imaginative and resilient. And you find pleasure in doing and thinking about all sorts of things and ideas, often at the same time.

You tend to be optimistic, seeing the world as a place of adventure. You seek first-hand experiences. And when you embark on a project or expedition, you like to be organized, thorough and responsible.

You are firmly grounded in reality and live in the here and now. You stand up for your beliefs. And you have a sympathetic and spiritual side that adds warmth and depth to your being.

In spite of your search for novelty, you have a genuine respect for home, family, work and community. You are conscientious and dependable. Yet you occasionally surprise those whom you love with generous presents.

You generally enjoy life. You have a keen sense of humor. And because you are broad-minded, flexible and playful, you can be a wonderful friend.

How your personality breaks out
Characteristics of all four personality types can be found within each of us, but there is almost always one personality type that is dominant. We call this the major personality type.

The Personality Profile also identifies your minor or secondary personality type. You exhibit some aspects of this personality type, though not to the same degree as with your major type.

Builder, 27%: Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.

Explorer, 30%: Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.

Negotiator, 25%: Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing.

Director, 19%: Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.

I really don't like the conventional and I don't like to listen to people's opinions unless u prove urself and make 101% sense.

Hate me? that's your problem....

A rainbow to end my day
12:07 AM


my happy ending...

Saturday, May 14, 2011

wow! it's been a long time dear old friend :)

6 feb 2010.
14 May 2011

more than a year since I last blogged. I've decided to bear my heart out once again and this entry marks the beginning. again.

so many things happen since I last blogged. to make it real short and sweet, on 14 February I met someone whom I love very dearly and 23 February we got together then we started on a Long Distance Relationship aka LDR.

it was really tough, distance far apart. I was skeptical at first but we got through it.
we were madly in love and I meant MAD, SIAOZ, CRAZY DOWNRIGHT HARDCORE.

"how?"

crazy things like talking till wee hours in the night about anything & everything
we almost see each other monthly? he fly here, i fly there like machiam flight attendant. the only difference we only got one destination, one person in mind.

we started 2 fast 2 furious and I did not even keep track of the time and space.

I have to admit, I enjoyed it. it was LOVE ON BOILING POINT. no, maybe VOLCANO LAVA EXPLODING.
haha no exaggeration intended.

u noe the thing is when u r in love, u r blind. I am not desperate but if we even thought of getting engaged.

we applied for a flat and got lucky 76 out a few thousand applicants!
sadly and maybe fated, our salaries exceeded and even our appeal did not went through.

I went over to Aussie for 3 months - living with him, cooking for him, doing housework.
Please, lynette... I have never ever ever done this before for anyone.
even my mother is envious. "eh come home and do all these for your family hor!"

frankly then this question pops up,
"find someone you can live without and not someone you can live with" then I ask myself,
is it so perfect that I can live with him and yet can't live without him?

As I was soaking in my own happiness, ignorant of what's happening.
he is having a different thought.

I dunno how, dunno when it all started. all i know is it has happen.
the passion has died and the reality has come to face.

so here I am, posting my sad story. falling into a dilemma. again.

Maybe this is my karma. But I believe god has other plans for me.
I leave it to him to write my love story :)

people come and go however, these obstacles will not pull me down. I will be happy because life is short and life isn't just about happy endings.

I know I will find my happy ending someway, somehow, somewhere.

All I know, god has been fair to me. the relationships I've been in taught me alot and the bfs I've had treated me well. I felt really blessed when I heard of other ladies' sad stories of being cheated of their money and being treated like shit - in the most horrible way you can ever imagine.

I am counting my blessings.

Whatever the decision or route I've decided, I will live with it and make the best.

I always told some friends my last resort, at most I just be a single spinster who want kids by choosing a sperm donor. haha.

I will be happy, I promise :)

Labels: ,


A rainbow to end my day
6:40 PM


Songs of Rainbow

Lynette is the composer of her life Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting


Someday I will find it


Scorpion
23 years of laughter
Driven by hopes, Love and Dreams
Want an exciting Life, daring & bold

The Rainbow connection




The Lovers, Dreamers

Cheryl aka ah chiew
Cheryl
Daniel
Vicki
Rena
Candy Zhumeimei
Sheryl
Mic
Duan
Sue aka Charmaine
Patrick
Rara
Cin
Etel
Lix
Jacqueline
Lainez
Shirly
Feng
Summer
Muliani
Nic
Ruilin
Shufen
Amelia
Jeanie
Shaun Chua
Brian aka zhu didi
Jacky Xu
Kaiyun
Drew
Xueqi
Elvin
Harry (Potter?) hee kidding!
Eve
Jian Wei
Kelvin
JunSheng
Leya
KaiQuan
Xingfu
Ivy the baker!
Kian Boon
Cai Ling
Tejinder
Poh & lee
Daryl
Rong


& me

  • June 2004
  • July 2004
  • August 2004
  • September 2004
  • October 2004
  • November 2004
  • December 2004
  • January 2005
  • February 2005
  • March 2005
  • April 2005
  • May 2005
  • June 2005
  • July 2005
  • August 2005
  • September 2005
  • October 2005
  • November 2005
  • December 2005
  • January 2006
  • February 2006
  • March 2006
  • April 2006
  • May 2006
  • June 2006
  • July 2006
  • August 2006
  • November 2006
  • December 2006
  • January 2007
  • February 2007
  • March 2007
  • April 2007
  • May 2007
  • June 2007
  • July 2007
  • August 2007
  • September 2007
  • October 2007
  • November 2007
  • December 2007
  • January 2008
  • February 2008
  • March 2008
  • April 2008
  • May 2008
  • July 2008
  • August 2008
  • September 2008
  • October 2008
  • February 2009
  • March 2009
  • May 2009
  • December 2009
  • February 2010
  • May 2011
  • July 2011
  • October 2011
  • November 2011
  • December 2011
  • April 2012
  • August 2013
  • January 2014
  • March 2014
  • June 2014
  • August 2014


  • The pot of gold at the end

    >> my Friendster account


    www.flickr.com
    This is a Flickr badge showing public photos from zhumei_ahxiu. Make your own badge here.

    Must go


    View My Collection Ads of the world Here!
    Ads that WOW! here

    Someone out here