This topic is a total summary of the current society and perphaps the book I was reading + a little juz-turn-21 ger's experience through observation and I, Yes ME is proud of it.
Next Question:
CAN THEY CO-EXIST?
Thinking Cap: If your husband has the MONEY - pros that you will be safe, financially. Have a good life, have a great house (Note: Not a great home), have daimonds, have the fame and the name.
BUT cons: Can he spare the time? Can he resist the women contacts? Can he be around to create the warmth in a ordinary family? Risky isn't it?
We need all kinds of vitamins - A to E and there's M too - MONEY.
There's a saying too: Money is the root of all evils
There's a following saying to that: IN chinese - but without it, wan wan bu neng.
REAL Life Example: I have a supervisor (she's an asst to the manager) in charge to train me in mediacorp radio. She's about 6 months pregnant.
Never experience a pregnant woman's temperament but now I did.
She's an hardcore woman who will really condemn u to the core.
She LOVE the feeling of pinpointing mistakes which she had never taught me before.
Nicely putting that to give me DE BESTEST FOUNDATION in this job.
Okie. Being a NICE PERSON, I take it.
What to do? I am juz a freshie compared to a 10years loyal worker who know-it-all and trusted among all even COE, Florence Lian (Ya Singapore IDol Judge).
She's a nice lady (*Glup*)
DO I hate her? I thought I did though I am always smiling -happy-go-lucky- ger wat =D
Until I saw her crying....crying...... in tears.
My back was facing her back. I heard her cries.
Being concern, I ask her if she's okie.
being reprimanded by her so often, she was taken aback.
she said she feel very moody.
Here's finally the LINK: -------
Her husband is a rich business man who often travel and for months maybe sometimes.
being pregnant, she need all the support that she can get but she can't
Out of reach, someone so dear... she call HUBBY.
She got de money, she have another boy too.
But LOVE is unfulfiled.
(Of coz i did not get from her but other colleagues)
Take note: It can be quite serious.
Singapore Girl-As-Tais top Questions
"does he drive?"
"What car model"
"What his parents working as?"
"How's his IQ level?"
"Dress sense?"
"Qualifications?"
"Income level?"
"cashflow?"
"Assets"
"Business?"
OH man.... hehee........ I must say, I do not deny as age is catching up, as the world is spinning, as our mind is maturing. Gers in universities have different demands and expectations compared to gers in Secondary.
THESE become more apparent, more obvious.
REALISTIC. MATERIALISTIC. PRACTICAL.
Same?
Yeaps same but different intensity.
the question I have been asking myself:
Where Do I belong in that classification?
I dun wish to the same Bimbo in Singaporeans
What Am I seeking for?
Bows down to love or money?
A rain of sparkling daimonds or a burning of flame - sensual to bury me.
Conclusion: U cannot have best of both worlds. They Can't co-exist.
When they do, let me know because good men are hard to come by.......... haha ;)
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