I wanna RANT this out! and I dun care whoever is reading this now. I dunno whoever can ever tolerate this..
ok recently he got a gf. I'm with my nneth for abt a year.
I NEVER DID contacted him for the longest time. only last time msn juz say hi and bye.
bdays, festivals - msg for greetings.
then one fine day on x'mas his mum msg me to wish me merry x'mas, din noe the msg was her so i naturally replied to ask. then we started chatting. we give our best wishes.
His mum doted me alot alot. and i do really miss his family. it was a 3yrs+ relationship anyhow.
then i juz msg him and his bro a merry xmas.
he called to ask WHOSE THIS? I was with nneth so i did not wanna make him feel uncomfortable so i replied: WRONG NUMBER! SORRY! - nneth sorry!
ok that's the end of the x'mas issue.
OUR frenz is leaving for australia to study and wanted to have a gathering. I am really over him and we are still friends (I thought..) so out of kindness, I did not mind him to go so i forwarded the msg to him.
he was very hostile.... he replied: HI, CAN U KINDLY NOT CONTACT ME ANYMORE? INCLUDING MY FAMILY. ANYONE WHO CONTACT U PLS IGNORE.
I was shocked! i did not even do anything to pester him. I mean why i flare up is not becoz i still love him. but y cant ex be frenz ? even for the simplest greeting.... I really do envy people can maintain friendship with their ex and on good talking terms because I feel every relationship we learn something, they were at least once ur best frenz.
Shockingly and calmly i replied: HEY LOOK. 1ST - I DID NOT CONTACT UR MUM. SHE CONTACTED ME. 2ND - I CONTACT U FOR REASONS LIKE THE GATHERING. DO U THINK I CARE TO CONTACT U?
he replied: I APOLOGISE. IGNORE WHOEVER WHO MSG U.
I was numbed so i replied: OK MR AS - AS mean antisocial.
Being NOT a pushover THE MORE i think about it, the more "BUAY SONG" i become. wtf! I did not do anything wrong either! so I question his super good frenz whom i noe because we r all secondary sch frenz.
he finally explained: his gf is a possessive freak who told him not to contact ex, gers whom she do not noe. and shes like SUPER GLUE with him! my frenz have not been meeting my EX becoz of her and clearly he feel it's weird how can they juz shut their world from the outside? he seems quite disappointed why such thing can happen becoz they r really close frenz.
can't imagine that! he could be reacting this way becoz of her.
****PS GERS DUN DO THIS TO UR BOY. it sucks! DEPRIVE THEM completely. give them SPACE FOR GOD'S SAKE! at least I am thankful I do not treat nneth this way or he did not either.
but I mean so wat if it is? how abt his family got to do with his POSSESSIVE freak gf?
so i replied: I'VE THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND I THINK U HAVE NO RIGHT TO TELL ME NOT TO CONTACT UR FAMILY BECOZ OF GF. BALANCE UR LIFE! GF IS NOT EVERYTHING!
no reply from him
until 2 weeks later....
yesterday receive an unexpected sms from him: NOW IVE THOUGHT ABT IT. CAN U STOP BEING SO THICK SKINNED. WHEN PEOPLE ASK U TO LEAVE THEM AND THEIR FAMILY ALONE, JUZ DO IT. HAVE SOME PRIDE FOR URSELF. IF YOU DUN, IT REALLY LOOKS TERRIBLE FOR YOU. I JUZ WANT TO GET RID OF USELESS PEOPLE IN MY LIFE. THANKS.
wtf!!!!!!!! provoke me again. I am a princess! and noone tok to a princess this way alrite. *glee*
I mean we ended off nicely. and we r ok when we broke up 3 yrs ago. it's juz really weird hes reacting this way and without reasons, I could not accept it naturally.
I replied: U HAVE NO RIGHT TO TELL ME WAT TO DO. U R INSIGNIFICANT AND SAY WATEVER U WANT. THERE'S NOTHING U CAN ABT IT. U R IGNORED.
no reply....
everyone asked why am i so worked out?!
the fact is WHO STARTED THIS? well.... i juz dun like to be pushed ard and those nasty remarks is completely intolerable.
the more he push me, the more i wanna do it. MUAAHHAHAA
what will u do if u were me?
am I being irrational or petty? shall I be a saint to do as he says?
