don't people noe ASSUME is juz making an ASS out of U & ME
someone juz shoot this question that time: "Is it because he's not earning enough to support u?"
gosh! people's perception.
am I demanding?
I ask myself....
anyway, everyone has their own expectations as long as u r firm of what u want.
i know what i want for sure.
the BASICS - food, transportation, movies
a guy should pay.
nahz... not LV, BULGARI, CD blah I dun need lavish or luxuries to satisfy my life. I also dun need the stickiness man ever.
i wanna have the freedom to love and he has his freedom too.
" give a man his wings and he will fly to u in speed." my believe.
then again, each couple should give their own space - their own friends, his own career, his interest pursue and maybe juz time alone.
thru time, passion dies down and all we need is a best friend to tok to and one who understands all.
my take: a couple too close may end up in a disasterous fall. being too dependent never helps. im saying in terms of my own POV and refering to noone in particular. all i can say is u have a whole lifetime being with the person u love so y hurry?
I dun wish to make the same mistake of falling out of love and realised I have noone to turn to? this is a result of being too dependent then realised all the time in the world was spending on the other person. by the time, all frenz juz can't feel the connection of "FRIENDSHIP" after one has not even thought of them when they are attached. it's quite sad really and HELL. when people u thot u care just start ignoring u or feeling the distance.
i feel the most important people in our lives before marriage should be FAMILY & FRIENDS. how much time do we have left for them afer marriage?
marriage is a whole commitment spending with ur special half. with marriage comes children. the whole cycle of being able to spend time with friends and family juz stucked there. of coz, it depends on different people management.
but Looking at singaporeans' lifestyle, the norm is developing. work work work and all we need, a hse to rest in and time to spend with the other half and maybe, kids.
ok coming back to the point, I dun think I am demanding or neither do I wish to be judged. judgemental friends dun go far. be whatever u think I am because u dunno the facts. it's juz funny how people try to find reasons to noe why a break-up has happen. maybe hear it from the real ger - me?
the other point is make time for ur own life and not sticking to someone u thot could be the one. nobody noes?
the only constant thing in the world is CHANGE. people change whether u like it or not.
balance ur life to go out with frenz, family, lover
what are ur priorities? have u ever thought to think are u spending too much time with ur other half?
we r toking abt SPACE here. and even the TRUST.
so embrace the love but dun forget the friends who are in one corner of the world waiting for ur sms, calls or msn emails to call them out
