and so the topic speaks for itself. READ IT PLS. don't repeat the act
the question is, "DO YOU THINK YOU ARE an UNGRATE-FOOL?"
let me explain, have you forgotten one's good deed that you have benefited DIRECTLY, CLEARLY and you knew it?
my mum is a classic example. no, not the ungrate-fool but the one who thinks EVERYONE is an ungrate-fool. the level for trust is only THAT HIGH.
once bitten twice shy. she can be quite paranoid and because she thinks people are ungrate-fool.
for me, I like to help and I mean I really like to. no ulterior motive and NO ASK FOR RETURNS. I won't say "Oh! I helped you once, the next round ur turn." it's so NOT automatic.
ya, saint. ya rite! but it's true. people who noe me well noes it but I only help people who DESERVE IT.
my point is I am not promoting myself an angelic but how about people who acknowledge and when good things are here to share but left out the person who once helped him/her so much?
AM I ALSO THE CULPRIT?
maybe. so far noone pinpointed at me except my mother of coz. (remember her case I mention earlier?)
but seriously, if I have free movie tickets or be it anything. my dear friends (U BETTER KNOW WHO U R) will be the first to noe.
it's always BY THE RULES: 1st 4 tics? mass message friends who matter. then 1st come 1st served. so lucky u!
In this competitive world, who share tips, notes, insider info? maybe fools. maybe helpfuls. maybe me. maybe noone.
sometimes you gotta SELECT. sometimes you gotta REMEMBER. BOTTOMLINE: SOMETIMES YOU GOTTA BE GRATEFUL.
this was triggered and I was quite pissed.
YOU BE THE JUDGE:
nneth was suppose to go back reservice for 2 weeks, back to changi. (poor thing! but serving the country is good ! haha)
then, he was smsing people to ask how they are going back to camp. you noe, the usual way if people can DRIVE him there and it's on the way, y not?
for me, I will be quite paisei to msg people to ask this favour because not very close what and only see each other during reservice. hehe.
so people din reply his smses.
nono, they are NOT (YET) ungrate-FOOLS.
because it's getting pretty late, he called one of them. named him A. nneth politely asked him if he saw the msg. A replied yes I think (so why the hell din reply?!) A told nneth to call this other guy named B because B is sending A there. nneth say ok and called B guy.
B guy din pick up. nneth called A again and ask if he could call B for him because unreachable or maybe just do not wish to pick up the phone since nneth already msged him earlier. A replied, "I AM BUSY PACKING NOW." (hello, can stop to call rite? will die mehz?) nneth was obviously shocked. nneth say, "OK WHEN U HAVE THE TIME, CAN U HELP ME CALL HIM?"
ungrate-FOOL 1 EMERGED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A WHO IS SO-BUSY-EVEN-TO-MAKE-A-CALL
ok, maybe nneth don't really noe him well or maybe he's just freaking jealous he got sucha cute gf aka ME! ME! ME ! ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! haha
not the end la.
B guy finally RESPONDED. he replied sms by saying, "DO YOU HAVE ALOT TO BRING, I SCARE NOT ENOUGH SPACE." (eh, you think going holidays ar? how many is he sending there anyway?)
nneth replied saying, "same as previous time (apparently he sent nneth b4 and nneth PAID HIM PETROL MONEY) nneth added, "I WILL CHIP IN, DON'T WORRY"
I was FLAMING inside le but nneth dunno.
then nneth told me, "Last time when I had lorry, I used to send him home always at jurong west there during NS days."
"it's ok if he wanna count the petrol money with me."
B's occupation from PSA. hello, they earn quite a bit!!!!!
you noe why am I pissed? 1. he din even bother to reply nneth's msg early. 2. no enough space for excuse? 3. he earn much much more to cover the freaking petrol. 4. it's ON THE WAY. he stay jurong west. 5. nneth used to give free rides to him so what's the issue! 6. cheapskate. 7. the A guy is so fake. 8. I will miss nneth :P 9. UNGRATE-FOOLS DON'T EVEN BOTHER TO INITIATE THE FETCH.
YUCKS. cannot make it.
pls people, don't ever be like this.
BE GRATE-FOOLS BECAUSE AT LEAST YOU KNOW YOUR HEART IS CLEAR OF CONSCIENCE. and maybe for a bonus, you may go to heaven if there is but don't do it for heaven, do it for the person who helped u in some way or other.
