allow me to explain: recently, a couple whom I know broke up when the gal told me about it. She was very affected by it and received counselling. they are together for 7 mths but she feels he's the one.
silly?
I dun think so
it's not the TIME but the FEELINGS once shared.
I was SHOCKED when she told me how she was stayed in the room and suffered in misery. she even thought of committing suicide. She looked strongerthan what she claim. every night, she drowned herself in tears. she mentioned the break-up was sudden. no signs. NOTHING.
It juz so reminded me in the past. I would have hated that guy but I din. she wants to wait, she says. he loves her, she says.
Love. it makes and breaks a person totally.
his reason? he can't forget his ex gf.
In a way I admire his courage.
he's not selfish to let her go eventhough in his mind, he thinks of another who do not want to be with him<
but then again, could he be confused?
maybe jus thoughts of the past. memories that linger that he PRESUME it's still love and affection he feels for her?
we are all adults. I am sure he knows what he is doing
BUT!
He made me abit disgusted when I asked him before I know the news but they broke up already,
"Have you bought vday present for her?"
he said, " yeah bought 3 stalks, they came by to sell the other time."
"that's sweet!!"
and he was smiling to himself and we talked abt THEIR RELATIONSHIP indirectly.
he did not mention they broke up or sorts. no signs at all.
was he pretending they r still together?
I told the ger. she was also clueless why he reacted this way but she wishes to know why...
are guys juz not willing to open their golden mouths(hearts) to let people know how they feel or when things happen, they juz choose to be silent(killer)?
why keep in the heart? isn't it tormenting?
PLEASE.... voice out.
we ladies wanna hear from you! be it friends, lover, family...
